Monday, March 8, 2010

Why This

The reason I am going through tis whole process of bringing out the truth is ,Yes the woman are victims most of the time,but when the woman we admire,worship adore ,turns herself into a harasser ,than my case happens .

Even now I will admit it boldly that the sole reason i am doing this is to show that she in a preplanned way on the advice of her advocate came to a conclusion that if she lives separatly from me for a period of six months she will have a judicial separation, which I do not want ,marriage is an institution that is sacred enough to protect its sanctity even with ones last breath .so I beg every individual if you think my cause is right help me fight this for I live for my wife and what i am doing is to show her that she is wrong to do this without a reason .
I WILL SAY AGAIN I LOVE MY WIFE ENOUGH TO BE FIRM WITH HER.its like reprimanding a kid when they do something wrong all i am doing now is that .

ARTHEJA

The Corp Pest

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India ,wanted or unwanted every one cheered when the BPO or particularly the IT boom hit our shores,what people did not understand is that ,the boom was also a hidden virus ,that was going to eat the core or Indian ethics.
Personally I dont have anything against the barons of the trade,but as a hurt husband ,let me pour out my heart to them ,about how they destroyed my marriage.
The moment a woman enters into an organisation ,her ambitions bud looking at the competitive scenario ,her wants dont match to what husbands or just household pets in their tongue can provide,their only thought is how fast to climb the ladder of success lying about not being married,catering to the needs of bosses which happen to be the rise pattern for them,all the mean while ignoring that a person destroyed himself two years ago to be with her alienating himself from the world he knew,taking every humiliation possible from her ,when he finds out what she is doing it comes to the showdown where they use the term dowry harassment,people so loudly talk about the term sexual harassment at work place,why is it no one dares to talk about the term adultery which is more dangerous , at least people may say i fabricated everything to turn the tide against Isha but any knowledgeable guy with the base in html programming can easily come to a conclusion that this has not been manipulated.

Right now the aim is not to target my wife on a personal level but to be the voice for every husband that has been humiliated used and disposed of with section 498,section 498 a

So I am taking the bold step of posting one of her confession with her lover on here so people recognize what kind of an it boom that is happening which shattered the foundations of ethics.

My mother in law is a core gujarathi ,her father is a true patriot of the cause and now my mother in law the great Dr Smita Ghosh and Dr P.K Ghosh entertain the infidelity with a blown up pride and ego.










Friday, March 5, 2010

The Witch and the Stick

Most Indians now a days ,may not be afraid of any other law in the penal process,than that of the section 498 and 498a of the act,though in the background it was started ,with good intentions,there has been many a dumb witted husband who has been sent to the altar to be sacrificed for all the wrong reasons.

Any act is supposed to protect and be justified at the same time,but these days,the laws in India have been found with so many loops , that their intentions with which they were started have been lost in the time.

Right now these are being used by the feminist women ,more as tools rather than any means of protection.Infact I will go on to say that these have become tools to the woman in getting rid of their marital commitments and going free.

But do these women really know that in order to get their characterless freedom ,they are destroying another persons life.I do not speak as a second person in this instance but as the victim who spent a night at the coop (jail),the only crime I committed being that I loved and trusted her too much to be led on .

Later when I came to know about her true reasons it was that she was having several flings ,so to climb her career ladder,the truth did not hurt me much ,but the way she made it known to me hurt a lot.

10 days after the episode ,clearly I can see how twisted she could be leading me on to believe her totally to the point that I go nuts for her,alienate myself from the family i had, all the while she was having flings around ,but making it known to the world that I was not a financially settled.

Isha her name means the person who shared her body with the one she loved,I thought she was that .But she turned to be nothing more than a assasin who killed not just my hope but the hopes of every person who still is a dreamer.

At this point all I can do is to tell her that I still love her and am waiting for her.